Your wife does seem a little panicky now. I recognize this in me too lol. When I was all zen and good and H was struggling, I felt, I think, a little superior, as if I had upper hand. Now he is gaining his own confidence etc. I am little more unsure. So, ya, you certainly read that right
Congrats on the half!!!! Take care of foot and knee... and congrats on hashing out a custody agreement that will work for you :))))