So many times Im tempted to text... "I miss you..". We used to send racy texts to each other, or cute little messages like "I wanna kiss you!!" I used to write him poems, all kinds of stuff...
A couple weeks ago I had gotten drunk, and sent him a sexy text, then immediately followed it with an apology...
Lately, everything has been simply neccessary texts, that have been friendly... with the exception of twice I screwed up and we ended up fighting..
I hate this...
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now
Sorry you're here. This is a great place to be for help and to grow. Don't worry about the text you sent him. Work on GAL if you don't know what it means it stands for you to Get A Life. Do something that makes you happy. Don't be afraid to go out to the movies or to dinner by yourself. What's important is you need time to think.
The necessary texts helps keep the line of communications open. With this you can talk. Keep the conversation upbeat and end the call first. Give him a reason to think you have something better to do. Even if you don't its okay. Smile and be happy if you take this step. Let him wonder what you're up to.
Fixer et al, Cianna has about 12 topics that are active right now and her most recent is the one I hope that everyone can support her on as it is getting some more significant traffic, right now.
Just trying to help get things focused for her right now. I do that, sometimes...
The hardest part is GALing, when I have to run every single expense by H, I have to clear it with H if I want to go someplace we both frequent or with a mutual friend.
I need to get the h3ll out of this tiny little town once in awhile, and see if maybe he will just five me an allowance... Then I dont have to clear it all through him.
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now
Thank you... I wish you could just delete them.. LOL
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now
lol, np fixer. glad to see you around and helping others deal with this. I just noticed your thread in MLC and want to respond to you and your sitch there.
