Are the goals you list some 180s based on your H's (valid) complaints? They look like good goals, I'm just curious about why they are important for you.
What kind of GAL activities are you able to do, given your financial constraints? I do get that you don't have any earnings right now and having to ask your H for every expenditure sounds dangerously controlling on his part, right now.
Do the two of you only have one joint bank account that you share, or is there a separate account for bills or "fun" money?
Speak to a L as soon as you can to know what your rights are regarding money, the house, etc. Even if you aren't going to file and hope that it won't come to that, it IS a good idea to know your rights and get proper legal counsel.
A few other things, some details regarding your M status.
How old are the two of you, how long have you been M, how long have you been together, when do you think things started going sour and what are the events that you think could have predicted this M breakdown?
