Dont know what to do...

[Cianna]

Since the beginning his theme has been, "This is about what I want, my feelings and my perspective."

I do understand about my friends being biased, and have been more conscious of venting so much to them. The good thing is, they all know that I am only willing to stay on a path of making me better, and having a better marriage. Only one time did a friend offer to get me "back in the saddle" as it were... being as my sexuality is unclear, and my desire for interaction outside of limited social setting is non exisitent, that was short lived. They no longer tell me to take money secretly, or encourage me to "take him to the cleaners". They all know my intentions, and are supporting me... even though they alll say, "Youre a much better woman than I, Id dump him and take everything.. Dont even know how you can think of forgiving him! Hats off to you my friend.."

Can I get free advice from a L without retaining one??