Fixer, You don't have to leave this site. I'm divorced and still here offering advice and yes, getting a little bit of moral support too. This site isn't just for saving marriages, but also to help those who are going through separation and/or divorce.
NO, YOU DID NOT FAIL! Fixer you did all that you could. Your wife failed, not you. She's a broken individual who still needs a lot of work and you didn't break her, therefore you can't fix her. The only one you can fix is yourself. Continue to post and we'll be here to help you along the way.
I'm truly sorry that things didn't turn around, but Fixer, you can still live your life to the fullest each and every day, once your mourning period is over. I promise you, it will get better.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
