I will chime in here too. I am over 50 and overweight. I still managed to find "The Man of my Dreams" and we've now been together for 9 years. So don't give up. The right man will love you for who you are. That said - I am glad I made some positive changes to be the best "ME" that I could be. My man is 7 years younger!
Good for you for building that dream house and keeping the debt at bay. Now THAT is truly admirable.
