Giant red flags? Shoot, we should all come with one. Mine would be Left Behind Girlfriend, slightly damaged, occasionally bites and hates leashes.
They only seem like red flags now but I doubt they did, especially if you had a few good years together. Maybe this is the real gift for you, my friend in dealing with an MLC husband. Time to decide what it is YOU want. I love that he seems comfortable. Gives you the true gift of time. He can be comfortable while you plot. Maybe you will start to build a fabulous life for yourself and keep him around for laughs or a house-sitter while you are away on some island somewhere sipping umbrella drinks.
