maybe i failed to tow the line with the DB PHILOSOPHY: so:
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I was reaching a point were it felt as if he was getting too happy, at one point he said I’m happy right now, and I believe I was getting resentful. Resentful, because I felt like a science experiment, like he was trying me, and my family, and our home on for size.
All the while he was still talking to crazy EA ...
My point is he’s enjoying getting close to me, his dep was at bay, and he was making plans again for the house, while all the time I was feeling like there is no verbal commitment here, so wtf?
in my own obsessive way- i neglected to say to you - wouldnt mwd and the book and dbing advise that you ( & me) should be riding along with this as best you can- that it was a good thing that he was tentatively approaching you and a return to your normal life?
aren't we "supposed to swallow:" such treasonous feelings in the face of your h's attitude and actions and keep your own feelings quiet - inside and not allow them to sabotage any "progress" he was making? i'm just sayin- i don't want to be guilty of ignoring your query - or not urging you along in what we're both (perhaps still) engaged in. dbing
i'd say if we're dbing- we're both supposed to be takin this junk in stride - not goin nuts and assumng they're still workin their way thru their journey- keep pleasant and detached and neutral.
okay- duty done i think. idk dawn -i'm allover the place. xxoo good luck
