I'm jumping in with Ellie too, as someone who is 51 AND who could lose 20 lbs happily. Damn menopause thing!
And my current guy is 4 years younger and is quite happy with how I look.
Ditto what Ellie said. You've got it going on like Donkey Kong! There are so few women out there (hell, people period) who live a structured and debt free life. I'd say that's beyond attractive!
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
