Limbo, my H introduced me as wife to some new people when I was in our vacation home place a few months ago. It was in a bar/restaurant. I was not there with him, I showed up with my GF. He was surprised and I overheard him telling the couple he was talking to that I was his wife. That was weird, because at the same time he was trying to start a R with Mexican girl and told her that our M was long time over in his mind. I’m still not sure if my H is in MLC. If he is, it not that wild. He is not as crazy as your H, but he is still confused.
Your H is on the fence. He is trying to live in both worlds. The best thing for you is to detach as much as possible and behave “as if” you are moving on. What plans do you have for GAL?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state