She said she was glad I went to the proceeding. She was very upset afterwards, and I continued to encourage her. I am not doing this for her (as in, SHE is not the reason I am doing this), but this D does not/will not change who I am and who I am becoming.
She'll see that at some point. Whether or not that means anything regarding R is completely unpredictable, but she'll see further proof that my changes are real and weren't just to stop D from occurring. No person or thing (or event) will get in my way of becoming PatientMan.
-PM
PM - When W and I separated I feared the worst, but have come find out that it was just what needed to happen. I don't know the ending, but what has happened happened because it needed to happen.
I would venture to say the same about your sitch.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
