Still Struggling and need help #4

[RosaLinda]

"As far as the EA, I know (because she admitted it to me when I confronted her) that she texted him after many drinks when visiting XYZ city in April and that she PMd him the next day because she was so mortified that she had. To my knowledge, that is it for contact, but I wouldn't be surprised if there was more."

Hmmmm, CB, I wonder how your W got Tatty's cell phone number to text him? But you know what, wondering about this stuff will drive a sane man batty. I am learning that there is no rhyme or reason to the things my H tells me. Cadet and Snodderly both warned me not to believe ANYTHING he says during this time, but I keep forgetting. Then I get my hopes up when he agrees to something, like your W did about severing her relationship with this man, but my H does not follow through. I likewise become devastated by something he says, and think it is definitely the end for us this time, and he promptly forgets about that too.

Like T^2 says, maybe just talking to your personal C would be the better course of action. Because it's not about the nail. Just had to try to get that in! And enjoy your family vacation, what are you doing?