A Feral Cat, Puzzling 2

[TSquared2]

Hijack away all...we are all in this together, and besides...it's not MY database... lol!

So, I had myself a very satisfying weekend, doing my stuff...garden, bike repair, etc...can't complain.

As for W, I just don't know, sometimes here, sometimes not...not worrying about it too much...just a little

I touch base with her letting her know I'm available, then back off...

She did something nice for me, I had mentioned a LONG time ago about needing some new/old bike shorts in a smaller size than my current pair (yay me! 32-inch waist achieved)...out of the blue she bought them at a thrift store, and a real quality brand...I was surprised she remembered and thought of it, and she was concerned that they hadn't been washed yet for Monday's commute (guess she doesn't want me in public in baggy bike shorts?? lol). Of course I thanked her excitedly, but didn't go into how surprised I was and all, don't want to stir up any guilt (she seemed more her usual self that day).

But she seems to have withdrawn/depressed again, very thoughtful it appears, so back to "T, aloof, yet available" in my dim dance cycle. There are other things she is processing that I know about like her friends situation, work changes, getting hired on from volunteer, etc...yet I reckon our sitch and what is she going to do, what/how can she come to terms with whatever decision she makes, etc., is in her mind. So just sitting quietly...

Found out there are some good, tactical reasons to wait a bit before filing for D....and L (informal chat, not a "real" consultation) has seen a lot of this MLC stuff (he does executive Ds and this sort of thing is rather common) and said to definitely try to wait it out some more from his experience....soooo, there ya go.

KD, that vid is hilarious!!!!!! I spewed my coffee a bit and burst out with a laugh and now my co-workers are looking at me weirdly...

T^2