H and our son were going to go to a flea market and as they were leaving H- would you like to go walk around with us?? Whaaaat??? me???
I suggest you accept 2/3 of what is offered by the MLC. For every 3 times you H asks you to do something, accept it twice. You don't want to be too needy, and you want him to see that you are moving on with your life with or without him.
Originally Posted By: Limbowife
H has been in full on monster mode for months. We came back home and I fixed dinner and he said how good it was. He was leaving and I walked out to the car with him and he just kind of lingered for a bit. I came in and started cleaning the kitchen and he texted twice and then later on H called me twice and didn't really have a reason. And he was very chatty and he HATES to talk on the phone.
Good. With my MLC wife I notice this hot/cold and distancer/pursuer relationship. It cycles. Also, my W recently told me how she was brooding that I would leave her! She's the one who was seriously contemplating it, but somehow she was worried abou me. I think you'll have to get used to this confusing behavior. Internally, your H is in turmoil and different sides shine through at different times. Don't read too much into any one behavior.
