It will take time for her to "get" to the point where she really sees it for what it was and can feel remorse, etc. Right now, naturally she wants to keep it minimized in her mind as "no big deal"...you must BE PATIENT...it takes TIME to unwind from it, they just can't flip a switch...well, unless it has to do with us...lol.
I would NOT bring it up with her outside MC, and I would let it ride for quite a few more sessions before bringing it up...give time time!
If you need to, talk about it with C in your own session, not MC...get some more other good things going in MC...that is the best way to help her move forward faster...MWD in DR says to focus on creating new, good feelings and experiences, rather than dredge up the past, at this point I think that would be your best course...YMMV... T^2
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