Taking My Space - Giving Spouse Theirs

[RealityTrip]

I take away so much from everyone's sharing. AnotherStander wrote this to Newman on his thread:

------"First, do you want to end the M (or otherwise force your W to end it)? Second, if the answer to that is "yes", have you really given yourself time to consider if you really do want to go there? Because in my sitch, there was a time that I was convinced that I was done and I was ready to initiate D. But I resisted forcing the issue and gave myself a few weeks to really think about it. After that soul-searching, I discovered that I really didn't want to end it, and so I went back to GAL and giving my W time and space. Don't make any rash decisions, give YOURSELF as much time and space as you give your W."-------

Just what I needed to think about in my own pain, infused need for "resolution" when my W returns from her trip with AP. Thanks so much AnotherStander and Newman for your sharing!!! I took so much from both of you today.