Had a talk with w today and told her i knew about the OM. She just sat there and nodded. She said that was expected because she has been gone for a while. She kept telling me she isn't angry just mad w me. The only way to fix that is to divorce. I gave her a lot to think about. Our son,the house and how things would be after the divorce. I told her that I wasn't mad or angry just hurt. She complained that I didn't listen to her 4 years ago and now I am doing things. She noticed I am more involved w our s. I told her I was in Lala land back then and realize now. That's when she kept saying that's why she is mad. She sais I get it, you don't want out. Told her we couldn't decide on everything today and we should get together next week on moving forward.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2