I haven't been here in such a long time. I remember this forum filled with people who care with a common goal to save each others M. Unfortunately, my M will be ending soon. I would not go back to her if she had a change of heart. I always knew who my W was and hoped she would see what kind of person I am and want to work on our R.
Well I went on a few dates with a fabulous woman. We still may date but we agreed to see other people. I learned from being around her my SBXW lacked more than passion in our M. I learned that DB'ing can help people other than my W heal. If you can stand for you M than I recommend you do so. If your partner is willing to change just a little watch the baby steps b/c starting all over can take a toll on you.
