I also forgot to mention the significance of her asking for help paying for the phone bill.
She has admitted to our counselor when we were going and to myself numerous times that she has never asked or would ever ask anyone for help. She said that everyone told her when she got pregnant in high school that she would never make anything out of her life so she is driven to prove everyone wrong and will not ask anyone for help.
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13