Keep on, keeping on!

[labug]

I guess I should have asked who you need clarity from. So who, MC or H?

but he has reverted to old familiarity with dds, assumptions, parenting, that he hasn't earned.

What are the rules for earning these things?

There's a lot of judgment in your post. Do you see that? You also have a timeline but you have to remember that it;s your timeline, no one else's. People make changes at the rate they do, youhave no control over that.

As difficult as it is, sometimes you just have to wait and see.