I think you have more clarity about H than you might wish. You can observe that he's not working on the marriage, you see him not doing the things suggested in MC. Perhaps you're hoping that asking him to verbalize that he does want to work on the marriage will change his behavior? I would say the clarity you need is your own clarity: what are your boundaries and how do you maintain them?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
