"Two other factors. I found out Saturday afternoon that while she deleted her FB friendship with tat-boy, she has been checking his public page 10-15 times/day. Oddly, she is also checking his W's page multiple times/day. After thinking this was over and she was past this obsession, that hurt."
Sorry that your fun date night deteiorated into double date night CB, and that your W's obsession with the tattooed chef seems to have returned in full force. Checking up on him 10 to 15 times a day does seem a bit excessive.
And...checking on his wife too? She's pregnant, right? Strange. But I've learned the hard way that MLCer's actions are often incomprehensible. My own H seems to obsessed with a Russian Tramp he knows only wants to use him as a means to get a permanent US visa. He runs upstairs to see if she's on skype a dozen times a day, despite the fact that they have a standing date to speak from 2 until 4 or 5 pm every day. Hurtful
Do you know if your W and tat-boy had an EA, or if the feeling was all on her part? What did his FaceBook post that enabled you to bring the subject up say?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17