A plan of action...vet advice needed

[SFC_Swede]

We had a conversation today about the R. W reiterated that she has lost all hope, trust, or feelings about the M. That no matter what I do, that she can never get back what she has lost. She claims that she understands that given time, and my demonstrations of change, that I had hope that her feelings would change. But...due to the past, that even if I did change...that even months later, she wouldnt be able to trust them.

At this point, she just wants me gone and to "move on". W did file the D paperwork today, and I am just waiting to be served.

I know everyone says to be patient and continue to 180, detach, and self improve...but I am seriously starting to think that no amount of DB will save the M. Theres just too much damage from the past.