Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious

"Hey, the guy at golf league who booked the trip said that we can get a free day of golf with our package - do you care if I stay an extra day?"



He's asking if you care. Even if, or especially if, he's not asking sincerely, why not tell him your preference?

"I'd prefer if you didn't, but that decision is yours to make."

So you're "allowing him", but putting the ball in his court.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl