Fear will keep you at a stand still. I'm speaking from experience so I hesitate to say anything because I'll be eating my own words ;-)
What makes me feel at ease is to know that I don't need to make a decision today and that H is not pressuring me so. I do things at my own pace. Take (micro)baby steps.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
