Hi GotoGirl~~ Yes my name describes exactly what my life is about right now....limbo. Seems like we are kind of in the same sitch. I am trying really hard working on my detaching and not doing so well. So much of what he does makes me CRAZY. I wish I had some words of advice but I know someone will be along to give you some. I can offer you lots of comfort and hugs tho Jusy try and be busy when you have to be around him and most important at least in my sitch DO NOT ask any questions. In my case if my H lips are moving he is lying or just saying awful hurtful things. Hang in there and remember to take care of YOU.