Thought I Was Piecing, Now I'm Detaching

[MrBond]

"Bond thank you as always. Yes I'm practicing detachment for a few weeks to protect myself from rejection."

The thing is that she's not really "rejecting" you. It's how YOU make yourself feel. You haven't drawn up any boundaries to protect yourself and when to say that enough is enough.

"Bond I don't know what I'm going to say to her but right now if she starts the D rant I feel as though I'm going to tell her I will file ."

It doesn't have to get to that point. You just have to start acting more like a man and stop being afraid of what she's going to say or do. One of the first things I told you to do when you posted on here was to look her dead in the eye and tell her you will not be disrespected and that she needs to leave. You haven't given her that "I mean business" look out of fear. Time to start getting your b@lls back.