Originally Posted By: Bluedown
prometheus,
Let me know if you figure out a distraction.


Hey Bluedown,

I posted on your thread the sort of things that i am trying to take on board. Distraction has only worked so much for me. In the long run, i am having to detach from the situation as best i can for my own peace of mind and health. smirk

Try and let go of controlling the outcome...easier said than done.

Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014