Originally Posted By: lostforever

As far as the anniversary on jun 10th he said to just acknowledge it in the same manor she did last year. something like this.

"Hi just wanted to acknowledge this day to say i have not forgotten it. Yes it is a sad day but did not want to let it pass."


Take out the "sad day" part. Why would you want to remind her of sadness?

"Hi just wanted to acknowledge this day to say i have not forgotten it. I hope you are doing well."

Send it on the day. Don't send anything else until then. (unless she contacts you)

Hang in there LF you will find that switch eventually. Don't ever give up.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl