Hi Reb, Just caught up with your sitch, I think if your H has dealt with the issue of OW with D15 then you don't need to go there. He has not recommitted to your M, so I don't believe you have a right to expect certain behaviour from him. I guess if you are sensing that your H is looking for more out of the R with you, then it may very well be a good time to raise it in MC. Your C seems to working on the R with DD's and needs to know how to direct the session based on reconciling the M. I guess you will know soon enough, if your H is ready to take this step, but often our gut feelings are right.