Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Originally Posted By: Positivespin

In the meantime;

" You will never be ready for the rest of your life....but it comes anyway"


LOL! One of my favorites is "Life is what happens while you're making other plans." I never realized how true that was until after BD, hahaha!


Good, God...^^^THIS!!

Sunday night, my H goes "So C wants me to write a list of 5 things about you that are really special and unique to you. This weekend I see how carefree and in the moment you are. Then I remembered how you were always like that until we had kids" This just got me to thinking that once I "Thought" I needed to be the "responcible" one, I lost that care free part of me. Which I find ironic, since kids are the most in the moment creatures in the world!! Ah....making other plans....


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D