As others said, don't sit and try to figure your H out. Mine was MISERABLE for a few months. Acting crazy.
Emotions are up and down. I agree with Bug, you'll know when you are done.
I'm still here, standing with you!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D