Just FYI, DO NOT make detachment a way of living. It's a way to shield yourself from getting hurt and not a way to live life. You still hadn't confronted your W yet because of your fear. That is the part you need to conquer first.

In your view of detaching, it's nothing more than running away and hiding from the issue. Your W still wears the pants in the family and you haven't found the way to get them back. She doesn't want someone that she can control or walk all over.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER