Swimming Upstream Against the Current

[BRNR]

Portia,

I so get what you are saying here. My H's OW is now his girlfriend as he has introduced her to our boys that way and I have found out that they share each other's apartments. So not fair.(and funny since we are not divorced, nor has he filed). The NERVE!

I think about that too...when is an affair not an affair and a relationship. IDK!!!

The embarassing thing is, prior to BD, I never guessed that there was someone else, let alone someone he called his GF.

Yep, yep...UGH!

I am right there with you girl...and the only advice I get from the few I have told...is get a boyfriend.