Going In Circles

[shouldistillhope]

Thanks BKS,

I going to try biking this week to get my mind off things.

My sitch has been a little interesting as of late.
I have been going home to our home on weekends and staying with my S7 and S4 while trying to finish the remodel while W stays at her moms.

She also took a second job on weekends cause she told me she couldnt afford things right now.

During the week i stay at my sisters house while my kids stay in our home with W.

Yesterday while she was at work i texted her asking her if she wanted me to make us dinner in the evening before i went back to my sister house.

The text as follows:

M Can i make you supper tonight?
W What are you making? Boys will be gone.
M I know, i thought you and i could eat some steak if you want.
No pressure at all, just thought it would be fun.
W I will take some steak and potatoes, but it is only friendly,
dont get the wrong impression.
M Not at all. What time do you want to eat?

So she got home from work and got the boys ready for their appt.
I had dinner done before she got home, so i ate without her and when i was done she got home and asked "are you eating without me"

I said yes, i am actually just about finished eating, but its ok. I covered yours up so it would stay warm.

We had light, friendly conversation while she ate but she seemed very distant and a bit on the short side with me.

I dont know if it was the right thing to do by offering to cook dinner for us, but it just seemed like a nice thing to do for her after she got home from working.

I waited a little bit after she got done eating and helped her clean up a bit and said "well i better get going, i will see you later."

She replied "yes, and thanks for dinner."

She acts like she is mad at me because i no longer want to get into arguments with her, but that is maybe just me mind reading.