Thanks for your insights, gentlemen. It IS hard to prepare to have a rational discussion with a temporarily crazy person. I didn't do a really good job of detaching from the craziness this weekend, and found myself believing all my H's statements. Bad idea. But now I can see now that it was just the same sort of crazy statements as usual, no better, no worse. If I don't agree with one of his ideas, I just need to wait because H will probably contradict himself tomorrow LOL! I'll go read that chapter in DB on having a beginner's mind again.
CB, is your W still at home after thinking she wants to move 4 hours away? Does she have an OP?
