re: last post, d15 confided H told her on Saturday that he's not with OW and deleted her from online stuff. d15 says 'yeah, but you're still texting her' (have to admit, proud of d15 for being strong!). d15 was vague with words and I didn't pry but H gave impression that he not longer was or was stopping texting ow. idk.
Based on intro from d15, I've decided I will bring it up at MC this week. But just from my perspective, d15 told me these actions and I just wanted you to know I really appreciate it.
It has been very difficult to stay focused on myself dealing with busy busy life revolving around kids. This includes more interaction with H, more co-parenting. Leaves us with a lot of communication that seems positive. I feel like a lot of our relationship is returning to the way it was before, focused on kids. I feel a little lost as to how to rebuild anything different and I get the impression H has the same feeling.
I think I'm going to bring up in MC this week. After we've exhausted the topic of H repairing R with dds, we're kind of stuck on what the next step is.