A Feral Cat, Puzzling 2

[CharlieBrown]

Hi Linda. I probably do that, but moreso, I read through my sheet on suggestions for listening that I printed off from the Fireproof site. And, when we start the discussion, I try to really focus in on it. This is much better when:

1. I have had a chance to mentally prepare for the subject.
2. I stay calm, no matter what is being thrown at me.
3. I/we are both sober. A few drinks tends to function like truth serum and the listening stuff is thrown out in favor of more honest and direct responses.

CB