Thanks T, I appreciate your thoughts. I know part of the risk I ran with bringing up the tat-boy attachment, and her essentially having an ultimatum, was that it could push her deeper and darker. I hope she is going through withdrawal and unwinding and not going deeper and darker, but I guess only time will tell. I can't control what she has in her head, but it was really crushing to find out after she said all the right things in MC.

The boat looks (or looked yesterday anyway) as good as it can. We didn't use it enough last year, with D9 playing travelling softball, and we decided to sell it this year. I needed to clean it up for our broker to be able to show it, but hopefully we can still get out on it a couple times before it is sold.

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"