He told me to stop DBing for not and for me to start doing things for me the things i did last year that made me feel better. As far as my dad's I just need to try and do things that will be helping me to put up with the negative environment until i find a place even if it is temp place that i can just recharge ME..
As far as the anniversary on jun 10th he said to just acknowledge it in the same manor she did last year. something like this.
"Hi just wanted to acknowledge this day to say i have not forgotten it. Yes it is a sad day but did not want to let it pass."
any input here would be good. I was going to wait to see if she says anything first but he did not say one way or the other. he said to just acknowledge it in the way she did last year.