Two other factors. I found out Saturday afternoon that while she deleted her FB friendship with tat-boy, she has been checking his public page 10-15 times/day. Oddly, she is also checking his W's page multiple times/day. After thinking this was over and she was past this obsession, that hurt.
Second, my sister, brother, and I have been struggling with some issues with our relationship with our dad since mom passed away 11 years ago. They had gotten better, but recently got worse, and I had a tough call with him a half hour before we left for our date. I know this set a bad mood, but truthfully, when it was just W and I, it wasn't on my mind, I was relaxed.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"