The other day H passed a comment about my not being any fun. I mentioned that it's hard to have fun when his nose is always in his phone. He came back with a comment about his friends being more fun.
I then told him that it's hard to have fun when he turns down everything that I suggest. He said it's because those things aren't fun. I reminded him that we were supposed to go out to the movies (his offer) and he backed out. I also mentioned that he doesn't come up with anything either. (Probably shouldn't have said it.) It took him a few seconds to realize what I said b/c he got annoyed, gave me a nasty look and started off with "What do you mean by that..." speech about working 40+ hours a week (only past couple of weeks). I came back saying that I understood he was overworked and tired. And that's why I hadn't said anything. That pretty much ended that conversation.
He keeps talking about being nice to me this week (and last). As if he has to make a special effort to be nice.
The other day, he wanted sex before I left for a class. I told him no (I was leaving in 20 min and didn't want to get busy before I had to leave). Later that day, I approached him and he commented about my not wanting it. I told him that I did but not before class AND I may not want to if he continues to treat me like crap. He told me he wasn't.
So if he's being nice for a day or two, it should out weigh the times that he tells me I'm no fun and he can't wait "til this is over."?
SMH - It's getting really hard to GAL and continue to want to be with him.
Me39 H35 M8 T14 Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me. End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter 6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file 1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home 3/13 Changes mind
