An expression of human compassion for him would not be cake eating or fix-it, in my book. I would imagine the prospect of an extended hospital stay, for which he reached out to you, would justify a response back, like, let me know if I can help, or good luck, or I hope it goes well, or something you think is not too over the top.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.