What would your advice be for for medical emergencies? My STBX called me last week to let me know that a pre existing medical condition was going to require an extended hospital stay. I have not spoken to him since that week I filed, but am tempted to break no contact because of this. Thoughts?

Relevant facts:
1. Treating this issue would actually address a major issue in our marriage because of its impact on his mental health (and its flare up could explain the initial bomb drop)

2. I am/was one of his few confidants

3. I'm tempted to interpret him calling as a weak form of reaching out; he had a really flimsy reason for calling

4. He didn't say anything like he missed me or whatever, so he might be satisfied w no contact and not want me to call.

Me: 30
H: 29
M: 2 yrs
T: 5 years
BD: 12/14/12
Divorce talk begins 1/6/13
I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since