No longer treading water, must either sink or swim

[Grizz]

Thanks guys. We told the kids today. It was bad, as expected. D8 has taken it the hardest. She has cried quite a bit. She was lying in bed with our wedding picture tonight. Absolutely heartbreaking. D4 doesn't really understand. She just feeds off of big sisters sadness. I have just been trying to assure them that they are loved alot.

AS, I agree to not bad mouth W. nothing good can come of it.

D8 actually asked if we were just splitting up or getting a divorce. W said, getting a divorce. The questions from D8 and her sadness really hurts. W moves out next weekend. In the very short term, the next two weeks are going to be awful.

W said tonight, "I guess you hate me now". Then leaned into my chest and cried. Also heartbreaking.

It's too late to be up but I can't sleep. It's going to be a long day at work tomorrow.