Ha ha! Yes, but do you have anything for the summer? Bermuda shorts perhaps? Lol!
This is totally karma at work. The kids saw each other in May, and were excited about all the fun things we had planned - one of which was H setting up a tent in our backyard so the boys could go "camping" - he did it last year, and they had a blast.
The guilt is only going to be magnified by this. His problem, though. He's the one choosing to carry on this way.
About what Juice wrote and you commented on...
My H has told me numerous times over the past 17 months that he just wants to be left alone, that he wants to be by himself. I have given him this as much as it is possible still living together.
I remember too him becoming stressed over any decision, no matter how small. There were times he would get flustered if I asked him where he wanted to order pizza from for dinner!
Pizza. Pens. Not exactly the big things in life. How must it be for them when faced with important decisions?
I have seen some improvement in that area. Now if he could just let go of his skanky life preserver
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
