DBing, GALing and living oh my!

[cbtdad]

Thanks for saying that Urworthy!
I really appreciate it. My mom asked the others day why I have become so patient with all of this. I told her because I owe it to our son to at least try and make it work.
She does need to find herself on her own. I wouldn't go to MC just based on that. She would have to tell me that the wants this to work an that she wants to try everything. She has already said she knows this will be a lot of work and it will be.
We are so blessed to have the MC we have if we make it back to her.
It's so funny how many people tell me she is the best in our city by far. Is big time pro marriage and is goal and solution oriented. Thankfully my W loves her as well. She is the only person I have seen to get my W to truly open up. So that's why I would agree to go. But I've told wife just because we go doesn't mean we are "fixed"
That's why I renewed my lease and would continue to move slowly

[uRworthy]

So happy for you that you have found a good MC. A good therapist is hard to find and can make all the difference.

Ok, so, I dont have to worry about you.;). You are going to move slowly, get out of her way, continue on your journey and leave her to hers, right?

[cbtdad]

I'm going to do my very best to do exactly that. You give me motivation. I appreciate it!

[uRworthy]

Ok, that's good. Whatever works. If it helps, picture me whispering in your ear whenever you forget. LOL!

[MrCAS]

Yeah, never mind the tire tool behind her back....

[uRworthy]

M, you freakin crack me up. And my weapon of choice is not a tire tool, just sayin.....

[MrCAS]

Oh, must be a hydrant wrench. Sorry. My mistake...