Wendylon, you two definitely need to work on the trust. He might see you as someone who reminds him of his shortcomings, so he's avoiding you. Although you don't understand why he wants to spend money to go away, I would just listen and then tell him your point of view without wanting to control. If he decides to go, let it be his decision. I know he seems to have a problem with controlling his impulses but if he sees you as the "police," the avoidance will continue. It's a tough one. Just make sure you're happy, though. I don't want you to live a "half-lived life." I want you to fully enjoy every second you're given on this planet.
