Hi Dmarie.

Just checking in. You sound so pensive, and rather discouraged.

I have had swirls of the thoughts you shared dance across my mind as well...

I sometimes think H would just be "ok" with continuing the status quo forever. On my side, its a challenge almost every day.

Of course, I live with someone who is cold to me, who puts me last - if at all.

He does not.

Yet.

smirk

Hang in there with and for yourself Dmarie. smile


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.