Yes she is definitely all over the place. This text exchange just happened:

W: I feel like I'm ab to have a panic attack

Me: just breathe slowly. It's going to be alright

W: no. You don't f'ing understand

W: I'm seriously shaking in my chest and breathing

W: I'm about to walk on plane

W: took Xanax

W: I'm about to start sobbing

W: WTF is wrong with me

Me: Ok. Slow down and take a breath. Breathe slowly. Tell the flight attendant you need some water

Me: Nothing is wrong with you.
You just have a lot of stuff going on, but its going to be fine. Please just breathe slowly

Me: We are going to get through this ok one way or the other. Just please calm down for me

W: I'm trying. I have to turn my phone off now. I'm going to try to read

W: I'll text when I land

Me: Just remember to breathe slowly and ask for water. Seriously

W: ok


Urworthy, if she asks to go to MC i will go and still continue to move slowly. I actually just renewed a 6 month lease on my apartment


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it